The only other problem when I started dancing was I got a bit distracted by the audience.  I was not used to dancing for people and also was not sure of my dance moves.  I solved the problem by always choosing music I really liked or loved and then I would close my eyes and concentrate on the music.  It worked...my body moved to the music. I closed my eyes often at first and later not as much. Then soon I could look at the ladies and put on a good show!